Marriage is LONG, choose well!

When talking with my husband today, we had a baffling "aha moment". He has actually lived with me longer than my parents lived with me! I went to boarding school at 14 and my mum moved when I was 16. On the other hand, we have lived with him, everyday, for 16 years. That really hit me!

Singles, marriage is LONG. Don't be apologetic about being picky. don't feel guilty for taking your time. Don't be more particular about a hair do or a shoe that you wear than you are over a person you will probably spend decades with. Don't skim over the issues. It's o.k. if you take longer than others to get it right, just take your time and get it right. You will thank yourself in the years to come.

Barikiweni!