Forgive

"Forgiveness doesn't mean that the damage never existed. It means that the damage no longer controls your life." Anon

Let go and be free!

There's no traffic, on the extra mile.

"There's not traffic on the extra mile". R.S

Go the extra mile. Why? Because the long cues are on mediocre lane. When you decide to be excellent, to do more and to go to the top of your field, you will realize that there is always room at the top. People are comfortable jostling for average. Be different. Go higher. That's where you belong.

De 28:13 "And the LORD will make you the head and not the tail; you shall be above only, and not be beneath,

Barikiweni! Enjoy church tomorrow.

Nobody's doormat!

Jesus was so confident in God's favor that He was not desperate for validation from anyone or anything. He shut demons up when they tried to testify about Him. He did not need their endorsement. He was not desperate for a good word from them.

Which devils are you bowing down to, because you feel that you need validation from them? What mistreatment? What unfairness? What diminishing roles have you stooped to, in order for that person to put in a good word for you? What unseemly roles have you deteriorated into because you are desperate for that person to return a favor?

Change strategy. Start studying God's favor, decree it over your life, recover your dignity and walk tall. If God is for you, you don't need to be anybody's slave to advance in life. Be diligent with God's favor and you won't need to be diligent about being someone's doormat.

You are blessed.

Success at what cost?

"What you compromise to get to the top of the mountain, will control you on the mountain."Bill Winston

Don't get your success on the back bone of sabotage, shadiness, corruption, oppression, compromise or sin. The devil will keep coming back for his shares if you make it through his principles and you will not enjoy your success. Go up righteously and enjoy success with no sorrow added.

Pr 10:22 The blessing of the LORD makes one rich, And He adds no sorrow with it.

Marriage is LONG, choose well!

When talking with my husband today, we had a baffling "aha moment". He has actually lived with me longer than my parents lived with me! I went to boarding school at 14 and my mum moved when I was 16. On the other hand, we have lived with him, everyday, for 16 years. That really hit me!

Singles, marriage is LONG. Don't be apologetic about being picky. don't feel guilty for taking your time. Don't be more particular about a hair do or a shoe that you wear than you are over a person you will probably spend decades with. Don't skim over the issues. It's o.k. if you take longer than others to get it right, just take your time and get it right. You will thank yourself in the years to come.

Barikiweni!

A negative mind can never give you a positive life.

"A negative mind will never give you a positive life". Zig Ziglar

You won't make it if you think it can't be done. Your marriage won't be happy if you think, marriage is a scam. You won't have a good home if you believe that you have to sacrifice either your career or your family in order to succeed. You won't be a strong believer if you think the world is too dark and too sinful. You won't get out of debt if you think it's impossible.

People are doing these things everyday and succeeding in them. If you don't like the results in your life, interrogate your thoughts and you may realize that you have been a negative thinker. It all begins in your thoughts.

Pr 23:7 For as a man thinks in his heart, so is he

Your focus fortells your future!

Your focus foretells your future!

Mighty anointed people are not so by mistake. They don't have a different Bible and were not saved by a higher grade of the blood of Jesus. It's their focus. They study the Word, they pray much, they confess and expect the power of God to manifest and they step out and do it.

Rich people do not make and maintain wealth by mistake. They study money, they call in money, they expect money, they hang out with those who are already making money and they go and good money.

Failed relationships are not so by mistake. People keep saying that relationships don't work, that all men are cheats and women are gold diggers, they focus on offenses, they listen to shows and read magazines about cheating and failed relationships, they are fascinated about relationship drama, they talk negative about their relationships and then they go out and ruin them.

Those who pass exams don't do so by mistake. They focus; they study hard, they pray for success they confess success, they expect success, they team up with those who want success and then they go out and achieve it.

It's not just about what you pray in your limited moments of prayer. It's about what you FOCUS YOUR LIFE ON. What you think, what you say, what you listen to, what you watch what you read, what you expect, who you hang out with and what you do.

THE FRUIT IN YOUR LIFE IS THE MANIFESTATION OF YOUR REAL FOCUS, NOT YOUR IMAGINED OR INTENDED FOCUS. Change your focus, change your life.

You will know them by their fruits. Mt 7:16